Thursday, February 23, 2012

How Blogging Has Blessed Our Family

Ivy 6 years ago at 8 months old
Isn't it funny how when you start a blog you find different blogs to follow but there are just some that you stick with no matter what?  My 6 year blogiversary is coming up next month and I follow some of the same bloggers from 2006.  It's been fun seeing their kids grow up and hear all the neat stories, encourage each other through trials.   Some people ask me how I could have so much to write about each day.  I don't know!  It's so much easier for me to write than talk on a phone.  I'm just not a phone person.  Give me a journal or the computer and I can write away.  Anyway, here is a link to my first month of blogging.  Boy, my posts were short!  Haha.  I wasn't sure how much to share at first and you can tell.  You have to scroll to the bottom and then go up to see them in order.  It's kinda fun to see how much has changed since 6 years ago.  I only had 4 kids and we lived in an apartment while our house was getting built.  Chaz was going through a diagnosis and it was a really hard time for us.  Blogging has helped me learn through others and has definitely helped in making certain decisions such as homeschooling and family size.  Believe it or not, I wasn't gonna have more kids than 4 but because of visiting blogs, getting more encouragement from other Christian bloggers, and seeing that it is possible to have a large family, that's how it became less scary for me.  I didn't have any encouragement at all from anyone else in my life so blogging has been a huge blessing for us.

We hook up the computer to a screen
to watch history or science videos
on BrainPOP.  It's fun for them and
not super boring.
My days are so much harder since homeschooling four kids.  It's long, hard work, rewarding, crazy, exhausting, and wonderful all at the same time.  First off, I have my kids with me every day so that's the best!  So many moms ask me why I'd want to have my kids home with me every day.  Um, that's why I had them you silly person!  :)  I would never keep having kids unless I truly enjoyed being around them.  Technically I don't "homeschool" I "school at home" which is fine by me.  It's not a status I'm going for it's just that I want to be with my kids.  I use boxed curriculum's but only ones that allow us to be flexible.  Ones where I can mix and match according to what we prefer.  I prefer boxed curriculum's because I'm still learning so much myself and I love learning right along with them.  I never did fifth grade in school. I jumped right from fourth to sixth so now that my son is in fifth grade, I'm learning some stuff myself that is long forgotten or was skipped over.  It's truly exciting for me.  My kids don't get why I'm so excited when we search and find answers together.  Learning can be so fun.

Ivy painting
The kids have been asking if we can finally break out the paints and have some fun with them.  I kind have been putting it off because I was worried about getting paint on things that shouldn't be painted.  Then I remembered that it's washable, thank goodness, so it shouldn't be a problem. I just happened to have a new plastic covering that I've never opened so they had fun on the patio painting away.  It WAS a huuuuuuge mess to clean up and it took us a long time but they were happy and seeing their smiles and painted pictures made it all worth it.  Usually I take them places where they do this kinds of stuff rather than here.  I'm glad we did it though.  :D

Ryan and Ashley


Jenny said...

I'm with you...I wouldn't have had them if I didn't want to be with them! :) It looks like they had fun painting...I too often put off messy activities to avoid the mess, but we have SO much more fun when we do them!!!

momto9 said...

I have found blogging to be a great outlest for me...and only other bloggers understand this

Caity said...

I have only been blogging for a year or so and not consistently BUT i totally agree on the uplifting spirit you can have after walking away from your computer. People in the blogosphere for the most part are friendly and kind. and ultimately the same as me. Same morals, same parenting style, same sense of humor. I find myself following the same blogs I first started reading. Thats mostly b/c those blogs including yours had helped inspire me to start my own. And I admit I'm still growing and learning the technical stuff and consistency BUT every time I log on No matter what my day was like I find myself with a smile on my face after I start reading.

Virginia Revoir said...

Thanks for your comments! :) It does take a bit to get used to your blog and tweak it the way you like. Mine was super boring the way it was styled in the beginning! When I first started they didn't have as many options as they do now. I had to go into the html and do some programming. It took hours, sheesh.

Bonnie said...

I'm so grateful that through blogging I have been made wonderful friends like you, Christine, and others. Also--always a good day when I decide to play regardless of the mess! :-)

Zion said...

Congrats on the blogiversary. I always love hearing about your sweet family. Glad you're kids got to paint!