The other day Ashley, my 6 year old, went to pick up Juliet by only one arm. Big no, no but I had looked down right at that moment and didn't catch her in time doing it. Juliet screamed so hard her lips turned blue. Ashley was scared and ran away crying. I know she was just trying to be a mommy to her but that's just why I've never let my little kids hold my babies. They just aren't mature enough.
People wonder why I'm so strict about young kids holding my babies but it's just kids sometimes are too immature and don't understand. My daughters' friend picked up Juliet a couple of weeks ago and while adjusting her on her hip, made Juliet's head snap back. Juliet was fine but I instantly took her back and gently told her to please not pick her up. I'm just as strict with my own kids. So I don't blame Ashley because she just didn't understand.
I had watched for swelling on Juliet's arm and didn't see any so I knew it wasn't an immediate emergency. I still was worried. Juliet didn't use her right arm all day and would only pick up things with her left. She cried on and off all day. I was getting to where I was just thinking about taking her in because it should have gotten better by the next day. Well, it hadn't. Kyle, my 10 year old, heard Juliet crying from pain in her arm and started praying for her. Instantly she stopped crying and was happy. Literally, she had been miserable all day till that point. She ran around the house happy, clapping her hands, and using her arm again. Whew! However, a day later my 12 year old went to pick her up by both her arms and she screamed out in pain. Once again she wouldn't use that arm and was hurting. My son felt sooooo bad but I saw how he picked up her and it wasn't bad. I went ahead and took her in and doctor said it was a displaced tendon. From now on she'll easily get that displaced. I can't walk her by her right arm in case she pulls away. We can't ever lift her by her arms, only by trunk of her body. The nurse also showed me how to put it back in place now that it'll happen again. The bummer part is it's an injury that lasts several years called Nursemaid's elbow.
Nursemaid's Elbow- when the ligaments that connect the elbow bones are weak, and a bone slips out of place. Children's ligaments are weak until they reach 5 or 6 years old.
I went home and had a talk with the kids about how to pick her up, the older ones, and told the younger ones not to pick her up at all. I'm hoping they remember! When I said the pulled arm injury is permanent, Kyle corrected me and said, "Don't forget about Jesus! He's the healer!" I smiled and wanted to kiss him. Of course! He prayed for her the first time and the pain went away instantly. I gotta keep him around with his faith. Tee hee.....
How to do a Nuremaid's Elbow reduction on Youtube. Click HERE.
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